We INFJs have such brilliance to offer the world, but our sense of feeling "different" can make confidence feel just out of reach.

I help INFJs understand and lean into their strengths so that we can flourish, and joyfully (confidently!) make a lasting contribution to the world.


INFJ School Monthly Membership Program:

  • Monthly Live Online Lessons: Instead of just describing our personality type, I teach the four INFJ internal processes (cognitive functions) that unconsciously guide our perceptions, decisions, and actions.  
  • Live Q & A after every lesson: Ask questions, gain insight and discuss specific application to your life-- within a group of fellow INFJs.
  • Growth Path Emails: Each lesson sets a growth theme for the month. You'll receive regular emails, helping you transcend obstacles and go deeper into each month's growth path. 
  • Monthly Bonuses: PDFs or recordings to help you apply the lesson to your life.
  • The INFJ School Member's Area: Our home for every lesson, starting from the beginning of INFJ School.
  • Significant Discounts: On all other INFJ programs and workshops!

Plus, my Instagram community is open to all, and an great place to connect with fellow growth-oriented INFJs!


Once you understand the way your exquisite psyche works, you can intentionally access your strengths and discover a direct, meaningful growth path for resolving your struggles.  


Hi, I'm Joy Malek, M.S. MFT. I’ve been a therapist for over 20 years, and a seeker of personal growth my whole life. In INFJ School, I weave together the principles of emotional healing with personality theory to develop a learning process for growth and transformation for INFJs, by an INFJ.

I understand that the flip side of each of our struggles is a tremendous strength, just waiting to be accessed. In INFJ School, I help students connect to their natural gifts in order to transcend their struggles.


"I am just baffled by how accurately Joy understands my mind— the specific ways that I think as I go through life. As I'm listening to the lessons, I say to myself, ‘Oh, there is no way Joy is about to say such and such…’ AND THEN YOU DO! I have NEVER felt so at home and understood. What you are doing is an absolute gift. To understand one's own thinking patterns— what a powerful gift!"

- Lenora S.  


Register Now for $25/month!

Gain instant access to these lessons:

Lesson 1: Unlocking the Power of INFJ Insight 

Get answers to these questions:

  • I love people, so why do I only fully "refuel" when I'm alone?
  • I swing between "productive mode" and "hermit mode." How do I find a natural pace and rhythm between inner world processing and outer world productivity?  
  • I can really agonize over making important decisions. Why does it take me so long to process and feel settled about making a choice?

You'll learn: 

  • The ins and outs of our top strength: Introverted Intuition ("The Contemplative")
  • The 4 skills we use to process our experiences and feel ready for the future  
  • The 2 conditions we need to process well
  • Introverted Intuition's vital contribution to the world

Lesson 2: Becoming a Well-cared-for INFJ 

Get answers to these questions:

  • How do I stay connected to myself in my relationships?
  • Why do I override my own limits when the people I love need something from me?
  • How do I make self-care as much a priority as other-care?  

You'll learn: 

  • The features of our second greatest strength: Exroverted Feeling ("The Kind, Capable Parent").
  • How to remain connected to others while caring for yourself.
  • The one personality muscle (which you use every day!) that you can redirect to protect your own feelings and get your needs met.
  • The 2 questions to ask yourself to break the cycle of over-giving and depletion.

Lesson 3: Moving From Perfectionism & Overwhelm Into Creativity & Action 

Get answers to these questions:

  • There are times when I'm trying to figure something out, but my thoughts keep looping and I feel stuck in an endless internal debate. How can I stop the loop and land on a decision that feels right?  
  • I have this inner critic who likes to get nit-picky about every little flaw in a project. I wind up burning all this energy trying to perfect it instead of getting it off the ground! How do I find my creative flow?
  • I have these dreams and goals that I can't figure out how to translate into real life. How do I turn my visions into a reality?

  You'll learn: 

  • The 3 strengths that Introverted Thinking ("The Scientist") brings to our personalities.
  • How to catch the perfectionistic INFJ Loop in action, and step back into creative flow.
  • The stress-less, FUN way to confidently turn dreams into a reality.

You have all the ingredients necessary to flourish.


INFJ School's membership fee is $25 USD per month.  

Join at any time! Cancel at any time.

(If you’d like to gift INFJ School to a loved one, please email us at info@joymalek.com!)


Frequently Asked Questions:

Are the live workshops recorded?

Yes, the workshops are recorded, and you will be able to access any past workshop or email from the Member Library!


How do I catch up if I enroll in INFJ School after it’s original launch?

Upon enrollment you’ll receive an email with links to key Workshop Videos that will provide an introduction to the building blocks of the INFJ type. 

This will give you a solid background for jumping into the current material!


What are INFJ School's values regarding race, gender, sexual orientation, and other areas of identity?

INFJ School insists on a culture of inclusion. Everyone who practices respect for others and the personal accountability to examine their own biases is welcome. We seek to be a safe place for all INFJs, inclusive of race, gender identity, sexual orientation, nationality, religion, and ability. 

As a teacher, I actively work to dismantle my own biases, so that students are not faced with the dilemma of whether to exert emotional labor in order to make INFJ School a safe space. However, I am grateful to be corrected when I miss the mark.


What if I enroll and then discover I'm not an INFJ?

This happens! If you're unsure about your type, I recommend taking this free online test before enrolling - and since no test is 100% accurate, make sure to carefully read the results about your type and evaluate whether it sounds like you.  

I also recommend reading more about the INFJ type here to help determine if it’s a fit. 

As we dive deeper into the INFJ personality, you may still discover that it doesn’t describe you. You are welcome to unsubscribe at any time, but I’m sorry to say that we don’t offer refunds.  

Consider this an investment into learning about the INFJ personality, and getting clearer on your own!


I don't even know what you mean by "cognitive functions". Is this going to be over my head?

Not a bit! The first 4 lessons of INFJ School are be deep dives into each of the underlying principles, or “cognitive functions” of the INFJ personality. You don’t need to know a thing about them before you enroll. 

When you enroll in INFJ school, you’ll receive an email with links to the first 4 workshops, which will give you the foundation you need!

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I’m already very well versed in the cognitive functions. Will INFJ School still be of benefit to me?

Yes, it will! We not only dive into the INFJ functions with more depth than most resources offer, but INFJ School also addresses: 

  • The way the INFJ cognitive functions dynamically interact with each other to create our experience. 
  • How to leverage the functions you have to handle areas of life not typically considered part of the INFJ’s “wheelhouse.” 
  • The INFJ “loop” and “grip”— how to catch them when they’re happening, and step back into your flow. 
  • Cognitive function insight and strategies created by an INFJ!

Do you give refunds?

Because INFJ School is priced unbelievably low to create greater access, we do not offer refunds. However, you can cancel your subscription at any time!


What if I can’t afford the $25 dollar monthly subscription fee?

Please contact us at info@joymalek.com for information about scholarships.


What if I'm not an INFJ, but want to learn more about the type?

A great way to make an INFJ feel loved is to actively learn about what makes them tick! Anyone is welcome to join INFJ School, as long as they are respectful that the learning process is designed for INFJs.